Every man to himself
Wednesday, April 21, 2010/10:24 pm
It's human nature to be selfish.
But to what extent would you go while riding on ppl's misfortune?
Sad to say, Ive been out in the working world for merely over a month and I've seen some very ugly sights of human behaviour already.
My encounter was with a colleague's negligence, which resulted in my dismay of getting ticked off.
My first thought was to speak up, stand up for myself since I wasnt in the wrong.
But I didnt do just that and I held my horses.
I felt very uncomfortable knowingly I got told off by sth which wasnt even my fault in the first place.
Unfortunately, I was left to take all the blame unto my shoulders.
If I were to clarify things with my manager, it would seem like im trying to sow discord, defend myself or even push the blame to someone else.
But if I dont make it known to my manager, then she'll think that I was really in the wrong and that im imcompetent. Which will affect my status of being converted to a perm.
I've truely understood and felt the real meaning of plain selfishness.
I guess I've to accept that it's part of human nature.
Sometimes human nature scares me.
I hope there's justice in the world to save poor unjust ppl like me.
I guess that's part of the working work and its part of the growing up process to know and learn how to deal with these ppl.
But to what extent would you go while riding on ppl's misfortune?
Sad to say, Ive been out in the working world for merely over a month and I've seen some very ugly sights of human behaviour already.
My encounter was with a colleague's negligence, which resulted in my dismay of getting ticked off.
My first thought was to speak up, stand up for myself since I wasnt in the wrong.
But I didnt do just that and I held my horses.
I felt very uncomfortable knowingly I got told off by sth which wasnt even my fault in the first place.
Unfortunately, I was left to take all the blame unto my shoulders.
If I were to clarify things with my manager, it would seem like im trying to sow discord, defend myself or even push the blame to someone else.
But if I dont make it known to my manager, then she'll think that I was really in the wrong and that im imcompetent. Which will affect my status of being converted to a perm.
I've truely understood and felt the real meaning of plain selfishness.
I guess I've to accept that it's part of human nature.
Sometimes human nature scares me.
I hope there's justice in the world to save poor unjust ppl like me.
I guess that's part of the working work and its part of the growing up process to know and learn how to deal with these ppl.
Every man to himself
Wednesday, April 21, 2010/10:24 pm
It's human nature to be selfish.
But to what extent would you go while riding on ppl's misfortune?
Sad to say, Ive been out in the working world for merely over a month and I've seen some very ugly sights of human behaviour already.
My encounter was with a colleague's negligence, which resulted in my dismay of getting ticked off.
My first thought was to speak up, stand up for myself since I wasnt in the wrong.
But I didnt do just that and I held my horses.
I felt very uncomfortable knowingly I got told off by sth which wasnt even my fault in the first place.
Unfortunately, I was left to take all the blame unto my shoulders.
If I were to clarify things with my manager, it would seem like im trying to sow discord, defend myself or even push the blame to someone else.
But if I dont make it known to my manager, then she'll think that I was really in the wrong and that im imcompetent. Which will affect my status of being converted to a perm.
I've truely understood and felt the real meaning of plain selfishness.
I guess I've to accept that it's part of human nature.
Sometimes human nature scares me.
I hope there's justice in the world to save poor unjust ppl like me.
I guess that's part of the working work and its part of the growing up process to know and learn how to deal with these ppl.
But to what extent would you go while riding on ppl's misfortune?
Sad to say, Ive been out in the working world for merely over a month and I've seen some very ugly sights of human behaviour already.
My encounter was with a colleague's negligence, which resulted in my dismay of getting ticked off.
My first thought was to speak up, stand up for myself since I wasnt in the wrong.
But I didnt do just that and I held my horses.
I felt very uncomfortable knowingly I got told off by sth which wasnt even my fault in the first place.
Unfortunately, I was left to take all the blame unto my shoulders.
If I were to clarify things with my manager, it would seem like im trying to sow discord, defend myself or even push the blame to someone else.
But if I dont make it known to my manager, then she'll think that I was really in the wrong and that im imcompetent. Which will affect my status of being converted to a perm.
I've truely understood and felt the real meaning of plain selfishness.
I guess I've to accept that it's part of human nature.
Sometimes human nature scares me.
I hope there's justice in the world to save poor unjust ppl like me.
I guess that's part of the working work and its part of the growing up process to know and learn how to deal with these ppl.
about ME
I am the pastel that paints your world
Boldness is my daringness
Italic is how my imagination drifts
Underline ... go figure it out
Jernice Wong Hui Qing;
TINKERBELL
23rd Aug 1987
Virgo
Boldness is my daringness
Italic is how my imagination drifts
Underline ... go figure it out
Jernice Wong Hui Qing;
TINKERBELL
23rd Aug 1987
Virgo
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